Them Judging..

Yes, you too.. 

You are also a Victim and as well as the Culprit for being 'You' at times.. 

From choosing the clothes you want to wear and keeping the hairstyle you like, till the field, you want to pursue onto and what you want to do in Life, we all are Judged and have Judged at some point of our life..

But what in the world makes people and us so judgemental??

We all around are surrounded by 'judgementals' and no doubts we being one of them.. We judge and are judged on so many things (most of them being silliest).. Above every other factor which enables us to judge someone (or something) is certainly that we do not have enough information about that thing.. We will not try to find the reason behind their strange behaviour; we won't overlook their defects.. Who will try to read their backstory either?? Just because we have to judge them, folks, no one is ready to accept the fact that "No one's Perfect".. We all have some faults in us, some hate rainy seasons and some are just waiting for them to arrive.. Few hate jam - bread, but few eat it in all the four meals.. So its totally your choice who you are and what you like/hate.. You shouldn't cry in one corner if judged on this basis.. We just have to learn the Art of Ignoring..

And other than this, what else lets them judge us?? Our very "first impression".. That English proverb has brought some weird Right with it, 'Right to Judge'.. Believe me YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION ISN'T YOUR LAST IMPRESSION.. Guess I forgot something there, Oh Yes, ALWAYS.. You DO get a chance to change people's mindset if you have made your first impression not close to perfect..

Besides, your interests are their key for them to judge you.. You preferring Arts but society, what do they want, they want you to have a prename before your name.. And that is where they find peace at.. Your preferred choices are something some people hate to think about even.. 'Right to Freedom' gives you the freedom.. Freedom to do whatever you want.. You can interpret this in any way you like but not when it comes to what one feels.. 'Right to Freedom' doesn't give you the 'Right to Hurt'.. We are so busy judging someone at the point, that we don't realize how will our words affect..

You know what guys?? We all are same.. We all here are same in being different.. That is the only thing we have in common.. For what you can die, is the same thing for which no one would even care if it's neglected from the Wishlist..There's no biggie in tolerating someone's faults because we aren't perfect either remember??

Before judging someone, make sure you know that if you are judging that person or thing, it doesn't define them, who or how they are, you define your own self.. We should not judge someone anytime, because each of us has different stories and roles to play.. So it would be better if we stop judging a little less, start accepting a little more and see there would be so many reasons to restore your happiness..

If you still care what the World's gonna think, so stop.. 'Cause you know they are gonna think it anyways..

But instead of telling you to stop judging the people, why don't we choose to stop changing for them who judge us.. It would be better I guess??

#BeYourself..

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